Are you looking to get back with the ex? Do you already have a plan on how to win his heart back? Well, if you have, you might want to reference the following signs your ex wants you back and check if you are doing the right thing. See, timing is everything when it comes to making someone fall in love. You don’t want to look too aggressive too soon or you might chase him away. And you also don’t want to look like you’re not serious. If you don’t have a clue about what to do, then this is a good reference for you to use. And with that, here are clues about how you should handle your ex’ reactions towards you.
a. He calls a lot. This is one of the most common signs your ex wants you back. And it shows a lot of promise since it is a reflection of lingering attachment. What you would want to do is encourage him to miss you more. So when he displays such behavior, try to not be so available and leave a few miss calls on your record. Of course, you do not want to ignore him completely as he may feel like it’s a rejection and give up completely. But you also don’t want to satisfy him with your company so much that he wouldn’t want to move forward with his feelings.
b. He asks you to hang out often. Although these may be categorized as either undoing or a display of fondness, there is no doubt that this is not something not commonly displayed by a person who opts to break up with someone than spend an eternity with her. If your ex is asking you to spend some time with him, you should comply. But make sure you do not give anything more than he does. And always look your best when you meet up. Try not to talk about the bad things that happened in the past unless he brings it up. And always endeavor to make the event fun and reminiscent of your early, happy days as a couple. That should be able to bring the spark back.
c. He is curious about how you are and what you are doing. More so, he still involves you in his life. An ex is not supposed to engross himself with your life and he definitely does not have the right to make you a part of his. If this is something your ex displays, then maybe you should intervene by establishing new hobbies and activities you can partake together. Not only will this help you minimize reliance on a dysfunctional past but also enable you to move on and make new memories. If this does not push you one step closer to being able to get back with an ex, at the very least, this does not take you a few steps backward.
Now, these are just a few signs your ex want you back you can base your reconciliation strategies on. If you’d like more insight, visit my website and read related posts.